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Having trouble losing the “Mom Belly” Post Baby?

Why diastasis recti may be your problem and how you may be making it worse…

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If you’re doing a million crunches to get your abs back post baby but can’t seem to lose that last little “pooch,” STOP!! You may be experiencing a very common postpartum complaint: diastasis recti.

 

What is diastasis recti?
It’s a separation of your rectus abdominis (6-pack muscles). As your belly expands during pregnancy, the connective tissue between the right and left sides of the muscle (called the linea alba) stretches to accommodate your growing baby. This separation may persist postpartum and in some women does not naturally reduce. This gap leaves your abdominals less functional, weaker and allows the other soft tissues to hang out. This causes that little belly that most new moms learn to hate.

Do I have diastasis recti?
Lay on your back with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor. Place 2 fingers at your belly button. Now lift your head like you’re trying to look at your belly while keeping your abs relaxed. Do you feel a gap along the midline of your abs at your belly botton, how about above or below the belly button? If you can fit more than 2 fingers in this “gap” you have a moderate-severe case of diastasis recti.test

What can I do about it?
Don’t freak out! You can learn a simple exercise to “brace” your abdominals that will begin to close this gap. Begin on your back with knees bent, feet flat and try to engage your deep abdominals by inhaling and bringing the navel to the spine as you exhale. See the exercise program below (“Other Resources” at the bottom of this blog) for a beginner plan geared towards closing the gap of your diastasis recti. If your goal is to get back to running, yoga, barre classes, spin classes etc., it’s recommended that you attend a few (anywhere from 2-12) PT sessions in order to strengthen your abdominals and avoid stressors that you’re not ready for. For example, planks and crunches are too challenging for abdominals weakened by diastasis recti and can worsen the separation if done improperly or too soon.

Bracing Steps (standing & lying down)

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Other Resources:

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Home exercise program for beginners: View at www.my-exercise-code.com using code: TGQQAGV

http://mumafit.com.au/  A site created by an aussie mom of 3, Maternal Wellbeing Specialist, and International Holistic Life and Wellness Coach. She also has a very popular app that has quick and easy exercise programs for during and after pregnancy.

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Intimacy Postpartum Doesn’t Have to Hurt

post baby sexIn complete irony the same activity that gave you your little bundle of joy can be painful, daunting, and scary postpartum. I’ve reached the age where the majority of my friends have one or more babies and our group text is rife with complaints about the post baby “bounce back”. If 100% of my girlfriends have complained of pain or aversion to sex post baby I assumed that most women have some concerns about it.

Why Postpartum Pain during Intimacy Occurs

Well, there’s the obvious:  you just pushed a human out of a place that is normally a whole heck of a lot smaller than a baby. If you had a C-section, your doctor had to surgically create an opening to deliver your baby.  If you had an episiotomy or perineal tearing, residual scar tissue can restrict your abdomen and pelvis making intercourse feel painful. In addition, your life just got a whole lot more complicated. You’re now the caretaker for a little miracle and your mind may be on your fragile new baby instead of getting it on with your hubby. Thoughts and distractions can be a powerful libido killer. Lastly, your body is just not the same as it was pre-baby hormone wise. While breastfeeding, your estrogen plummets, and the hormone level in the vagina may be lowered while your whole body focuses on making enough milk for your baby.

post baby massageHow to Overcome Postpartum Pain during Intimacy

  • Firstly, if you had a c-section or episiotomy, self-massage of the vaginal area can be a helpful tool for breaking up scar tissue that may be causing pain. Tips: be gentle with yourself! Don’t rub over the scar but simply hold pressure on the area of discomfort for 5 seconds and then try to move the skin around the incision. Don’t be shy! You can even have your partner gently massage where the perineal or episotomy scar is located if you’re working on an episiotomy scar.
  • Next , when attempting intercourse, use lubrication. Low estrogen levels lead to a lower libido, which means less arousal and less lubrication in the vaginal tissue, and even thinner, more brittle tissue. If you’re into the natural stuff even coconut oil will do. Otherwise try any over the counter kind you like. Your MD may even prescribe a topical cream with some estrogen to help the vaginal tissue bounce back.
  • So you’re lubed up and ready to go…what next? Try different sexual positions, such as being on top of your partner, so you are better to control the depth and speed of penetration. Remember: everyone heals differently. There’s no rush, and you need to communicate with your partner what feels good and what doesn’t.
  • Last tip: don’t forget that you can still get pregnant during postpartum healing.

If you feel like working through the suggestions in this blog on your own is too daunting or you feel like you need professional help, let your MD or physical therapist know. At EMH physical therapy we can help. We specialize in women’s health including any issues that occur post-partum. You deserve to feel like “you” again, so you can be the best mom for that new baby!